Commit to Growth: Transitioning from Interest to Dedication
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Chapter 1: Understanding Commitment
Flirting with the idea of self-improvement isn't enough to foster real change.
Most people flirt with the notion of becoming a better version of themselves, yet they remain hesitant to fully engage. While flirting is simple and requires minimal effort, true commitment necessitates action. If you aspire to stand out from the crowd, then shifting your focus from mere interest to genuine commitment is essential.
Interest vs. Commitment
Committing means fully dedicating yourself to a goal, while being merely interested leaves the door open to distractions. When you constantly seek something better, you may overlook the potential for growth in what you already have. For instance, if you decide to pursue real estate, you might find it more challenging than expected and shift your focus elsewhere, like day trading or dropshipping. Each time you jump from one interest to another, you miss opportunities for growth in a single area. Commitment is the promise of progress over time.
- Commit to your fitness journey and witness weight loss.
- Commit to your partner for a thriving relationship.
- Commit to your personal goals and achieve them.
Your primary responsibility is to work diligently towards the person you aspire to become.
How to Demonstrate Commitment
In relationships, commitment manifests as:
- Being reliable
- Acquiring new skills tailored to the relationship
- Staying invested for the long term
Interestingly, these principles apply to your relationship with yourself as well.
Show Up
Being dishonest with yourself only breeds distrust. If you cannot rely on your own word, why would anyone else? If your goal is to wake up at 5 AM, set your alarm and follow through. Prioritize rest instead of late-night distractions. Resist the urge to break your commitments, and consistently show up for yourself.
Acquiring New Skills
Communicating with your spouse differs significantly from talking to an ex. You must learn what works for your current relationship. Regardless of your goal, acquiring new skills is crucial for progress, whether that involves content creation, editing, or obtaining a certification. Bridging the gap in knowledge is key to reaching your destination.
Stay Engaged
Alex Hormozi outlines a bell curve depicting the journey of entrepreneurs. Many individuals abandon their goals prematurely, revealing a lack of commitment. Success stems from perseverance; the longer you pursue your objectives, the more proficient you become, and the closer you get to your ideal self. If you exit the game, scoring becomes impossible. Stay committed and don’t give up.
Nurturing Your Relationship with Yourself
These insights apply not only to external relationships but also to how we treat ourselves. Hormozi emphasizes the importance of focusing on inputs as goals. Instead of fixating on achieving 10,000 followers on Medium next year, set actionable targets:
- Write 300 articles (5–6 per week)
- Leave 1,000 comments (3 daily)
- Engage with 100 individuals (2 weekly)
When your goals are centered on inputs, you maintain control, which is far more empowering than aimlessly wandering. Take initiative rather than waiting for external circumstances to motivate you.
Do what you commit to, acquire new skills, and consistently show up until you manifest the changes you desire. Ultimately, it’s you against yourself.
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The first video titled "Are You Committed, Or Merely Interested? How To Motivate Yourself For Success" delves into the differences between mere interest and genuine commitment, offering strategies for self-motivation.
The second video, "Why Men Lose Interest After You Get Emotionally Attached," explores the dynamics of emotional attachment and the reasons behind waning interest in relationships.