Section 1.1: The Fallacy of "One Right Way"

Dogmatism often conjures images of extreme religious fervor, particularly in Christianity. However, it's also prevalent among Western adherents of Eastern philosophies.

For instance, a non-dual teacher once insisted that I didn't exist—a clear sign they had entrenched themselves in their own ideological maze. The New Age movement, while perhaps waning, continues to resonate with many, particularly among the youthful and the spiritually curious. They often believe in mystical shortcuts to enlightenment.

Your instinct might be to dismiss the idea of dogmatism in your own beliefs, but I urge you to reflect. Is there a trace of it lurking within?

Subsection 1.1.1: My Childhood Influences

Growing up in a Catholic school, I was subjected to fear-based teachings from a group of nuns, instilling a deep-seated anxiety about divine punishment.

"Could God really transform Lot’s wife into a pillar of salt for merely glancing back at Sodom and Gomorrah? Was I at risk of similar fates?"

These fears haunted my childhood. After relocating and transitioning to public school, I thought I had escaped this fearful mindset. I distanced myself from Catholicism, convinced that belief in a merciless God was no longer for me.

In my late twenties, I discovered Tibetan Buddhism, which emphasizes strong devotion to a spiritual mentor. Unfortunately, my teacher leaned heavily towards dogmatism, reviving my childhood fears.

The teachings offered numerous prescriptive rules akin to the rigid dogmas I had left behind, alongside elaborate descriptions of hell that rivaled those of my earlier faith.

While Buddhism ideally encourages discernment between beneficial and harmful actions, the level of dogmatism varies significantly depending on the teacher and the student.

Section 1.2: The Struggle Against Fear

My Catholic upbringing resurfaced as I navigated the complexities of Tibetan Buddhism, where fear-based tactics were employed to enforce obedience.

My teacher often illustrated the limits of our choices through the metaphor of a snake confined in a tube—suggesting we could only ascend to enlightenment or descend into hell. The idea of remaining stuck was never discussed.

Yet, it's important to note that many Tibetan Buddhist teachers convey their teachings without instilling fear. Some interpretations, like those from the philosopher Shantideva, describe hell as a state of mind rather than a physical place.

Despite this, I found myself worrying excessively about the repercussions of dissent. What would happen to those who questioned authority? Would they fall victim to the same fears that haunted me?

I can hardly believe I endured such stress for so long, which ultimately led to chronic health issues—not just for me but for others in the group as well. I still believe our actions have consequences, but I prefer a worldview that embraces mercy and countless opportunities for growth.

Section 2.1: Rediscovering Spirituality

As I started to separate from dogmatism, I pondered my own spiritual journey. Was it necessary to have a teacher to achieve enlightenment? Did speaking out against my teacher mean I was destined for failure?

For five years, I wandered through uncertainty, unsure of whom to trust or how to progress. However, as my exploration deepened, the grip of dogmatism loosened.

The more I engaged with non-duality through study and meditation, the less certain I became about any singular path being right or wrong. While I still resonate with Buddhist teachings, I recognize that the essence of existence cannot be fully captured by concepts or words.

The map is merely a representation; it falls short of the reality it aims to depict. You must sit quietly and engage with the mystery of existence yourself.

Concluding Thoughts

It’s easy to slip into dogmatism when a spiritual practice captivates you, whether it’s a formal religion or a blend of New Age ideas. The joy these beliefs bring can lead you to assume they are universally applicable.

But how can you be certain?

Dogmatism breeds division, conflict, and isolation, leading you to believe there’s a singular path to understanding the universe, when in fact, numerous roads can guide you to the same destination.

Take a moment for introspection. Are there spiritual beliefs you cling to? How do they serve you? What would happen if you released them?

Remember, the map is not the territory—not even close.

In the video, "What Does The Map is Not The Territory Mean," we delve deeper into understanding the concept and its implications on personal growth and spiritual exploration.

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