Strategies for Addressing Client and Prospect Ghosting
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Understanding Client and Prospect Ghosting
When I was invited to write about this subject, it revolved around the issue of potential clients or prospects who suddenly vanish. I interpreted this as "ghosting," which refers to when they stop engaging with your messages—be it texts, emails, phone calls, or even letters. This type of silence can be disheartening and often leaves one feeling confused or even hurt. Let’s explore the reasons behind this phenomenon and how to respond effectively.
The approach taken when a client goes silent might differ from that used for a prospect. Typically, fear plays a significant role in these situations. When a client experiences fear, it can be overwhelming and disorienting, leading them to withdraw rather than communicate their feelings. Often, this fear is linked to financial concerns. If a client faces unexpected issues that challenge their commitment, they may feel trapped and opt to disengage rather than confront the situation.
What to Do When a Client Stops Responding
Here are several suggestions I provide to my clients when dealing with ghosting:
- Don’t Take It Personally: The initial instinct is often to feel personally slighted, as if one has done something to cause the client’s disappearance. It’s crucial to recognize that this reaction typically has nothing to do with you.
- Make a Phone Call: Checking in with a phone call can be beneficial. A simple message expressing concern may prompt a response when they are ready to engage again.
- Follow Up via Email: If necessary, send a follow-up email requesting a phone conversation. Speaking directly often yields better engagement than text or email exchanges.
- Be Patient: After a week to ten days without a response, consider making one final call and leave a message requesting a callback when they are prepared.
Reaching out by phone allows for a more personal connection, which can be vital in understanding their situation. Written communication can often lead to avoidance rather than resolution.
Psychologically, individuals tend to avoid saying "no." This aversion can lead to ghosting behaviors, particularly in prospects who have previously shown interest but are now hesitant to commit. To mitigate this, it's beneficial to inquire about potential obstacles upfront.
Preventing Ghosting
To avoid the issue of ghosting altogether, consider asking your clients in advance what might deter them from continuing. This proactive approach can help you navigate their concerns and re-engage them if necessary. Clarifying any possible consequences—such as service interruptions or payment issues—should also be communicated clearly.
For prospects who initially express interest and then vanish, the dynamics remain similar. Their silence often stems from fear of commitment or the inability to articulate their change of heart. Employing the strategies mentioned can help re-establish communication and potentially rekindle their interest.
If you find that ghosting occurs frequently, it may be indicative of underlying issues within your sales process or client experience. Seeking external consulting can provide valuable insights into improving these areas.
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Maureen Considine is the Founder and CEO of Finding Your Way Coaching. As a Master Coach specializing in Income Acceleration, Business Development, Sales, and Mindset, she serves as the Wealth Health Creation Strategist for entrepreneurs and high performers. With over 25 years in sales and marketing, Maureen has assisted numerous clients in achieving their business goals through her unique, holistic approach. She holds a B.A. in Psychology and has undergone extensive training in mindset and the Psychology of Sales.
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